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About Me

Meet Shelby, The Periprofessional

In October 2019 at 49, I walked into my annual doctor’s appointment and said, “I’m not feeling like myself.” I had all sorts of weird symptoms, but I couldn’t pinpoint what they were related to or why they were happening. Saying “I’m not feeling like myself” was emotionally easier for me to say than what I really wanted to say, which was “I think I’m dying.”

My doctor wasn’t really able to help me that day except to rule out anything serious and never mentioned perimenopause at all (there’s a reason for this if you’ve had your own experience, which I’ll write an article about at some point). Health has always been a passion of mine; I even earned a few degrees in health administration. As health-educated as I am, I never considered perimenopause as the cause. The universe would have you believe that the only two symptoms are skipping periods and hot flashes; I had neither one. Perimenopause is so confusing it has even caught female doctors off-guard in their own health.

My Purpose & Passion

By 2021, after years of being perimenopausal without realizing it, I started skipping periods and that’s when I began to figure out what was going on. I knew I had to find a better way of dealing with my body's changes. I had lost so much by this point. I was a shell of my former self with so many symptoms, I had quit my job because my body couldn’t keep up with the demands, and we were in a pandemic (we all know how that went).

So, I did what I love to do: I researched everything. It made me feel in control of my situation, and the knowledge helped calm me down. I started applying what I learned and started to see some big results. I’m in a much better place physically, emotionally, and psychologically as I continue on this transition (yeah, still in it!). This is why I share what I do here; if it helps me, I know it can help someone else. I would not wish what I went through on my worst enemy. No woman has to suffer through this transition like I originally did.

My Qualifications

  • Certified menopause instructor working towards becoming a menopause health coach. Certified as a menopause instructor by Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz (a leading physician specializing in menopause care and founder of the Menopause Bootcamp).

  • I have a Master of Health Administration (MHA), which I describe as a business degree with many health and health-related classes. I obtained my MHA jointly from Clark University and the University of Massachusetts Medical School in Worcester, MA. I also have a Bachelor of Science in Health Administration.

  • Over 30+ years of being a part of the healthcare industry in various functions, including corporate training. I’ve been learning about and researching health information longer than this.

  • I’m a member of the Menopause Society (formerly the North American Menopause Society, NAMS). The Menopause Society is the premier resource for menopause research, continued education, certification of health providers, and the establishment of evidence-based guidelines.

  • I’m a member of the National Menopause Foundation. NMF is a not-for-profit organization that promotes education and advocacy on menopause issues. It’s also the founder of the NMF Women’s Midlife Health Policy Institute.

  • I regularly attend health lectures, webinars, and summits to stay current. I have access to American and international medical journals/literature, including research studies behind paywalls, and know how to interpret and discuss them. I’m a lifelong learner and subscribe to over 20 print publications, most of them health-related.

  • My passion and focus have always been on women’s health and women’s healthcare issues. However, I’ve studied a wide range of health topics such as general health/wellness, fitness, nutrition, anxiety, trauma, aging, sexuality, consumer health, the history and current state of the US health system, how the pharmaceutical industry innovates and produces new drugs, and the business of healthcare.

  • I’m a crusader against health misinformation, which is one of the reasons why this website and my newsletters are open-access. I’m upset that fear is often being used to commercialize perimenopause and menopause. We deserve better than this.

My Life

Photo from June 2023. I was attending the American Medical Association’s 178th Presidential Inauguration of Jesse M. Ehrenfeld, MD, MPH. This photo is significant because I was just starting to get back out into the world after debilitating perimenopause symptoms and a pandemic.

I’ve been proudly married to my hubs for 24 years and have college-aged twins. I love reading and can mostly retain information (brain fog is real, y’all). I like to laugh and do silly things. My bags are always packed for my next trip. I workout regularly and eat right (I follow an 80/20 rule, if you’re curious). I “walk the talk” and am living proof you can thrive during this transition.

I love common sense and logic - I need things to make sense. I love learning and sharing information with people, it’s my life purpose. The beginning of perimenopause was a very rough start for me, but I now realize the power of this time to reclaim who I am. I’m a much more authentic person, both inside and out. Even though I’m still going through perimenopause, I’m overall much happier than I’ve ever been.

Two Truths and a Lie*

I love this game from my corporate training days. See if you can figure out which statement is a lie:

  • At 48, I climbed the dome at the City Museum in St. Louis, Missouri

  • 25 years ago, I accidentally talked my way into a CIA facility

  • In 2023, I was a background actor in a Christmas movie

*Keep reading for the answer below.

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Science is constantly changing. Content is accurate at the time of publication to the best of my abilities and will be updated as much as reasonably possible.


* The lie is that the game should have been called Three Truths. They are all true.

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"The Mrs. Maisel of menopause!" I'm a certified perimenopause educator who blends science and humor. Are you over 40 and don't feel like yourself lately? Stick around and learn why the biology of perimenopause may be making you feel like crap.

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"The Mrs. Maisel of menopause". I'll tell it to you straight, talk TMI, and won't waste your time. Certified perimenopause educator who blends science and humor.